I think its awful that Dar is being criticised for the last ODI. The two marginal decisions (Tendulkar & Dravid) were hardly obvious errors. My immediate thought at the time was that Dravid wasn't out and that Tendulkar was (how wrong was I). Judging by the combination of the noise (a very woody bat on pad noise) and the time the ball passed the bat for the Tendulkar dismissal made that one incredibly tough to call. I wager that any umpire would have had difficulty with that one. The Dravid one didn't sound like bat to me, but the technology later showed that it probably was. Two incredibly tough decisions to make, and a 50:50 success rate? Also, in both cases, it took technology at least a couple of overs to 'prove' that it was not out / out; are people seriously advocating a referral for every time that the ball flies past the outside edge. Forget slow over rates of 12/13 overs per hour, you'll be lucky to fit in five!
The other problem I have with the use of technology in edges behind is that the benefit of the doubt is bound to go to the batsman. The technology showed that it was likely that Dravid edged behind. Guaranteed that the Dravid dismissal would have been given not out on the balance of probabilities. We need to be evening out the ever widening gulf between the batsman and bowler, not making it easier for the batsman. If you just want to see big beefy guys belting the crap off the ball, just let Derek Pringle play test match cricket again.
I'm pretty fed up of people lynching umpires with words when the decisions are damn close. By all means, chastise them and complain until you're blue in the face when they make an absolute howler (e.g. the ball pitches a foot outside leg stump, but an lbw is given) but you cannot damn an otherwise good umpire on the basis of a 50:50 decision.
Also, why are people largely ignoring the fact that Uthappa was given not out off (a very thin edge). To my mind, that makes the (marginally) wrong decisions in that last ODI 1-all. From what I've read in the media, you'd think Aleem Dar was wagering a one-man campaign to dismiss the Indian batsmen for no reason at all!