20-03-2008, 05:48 AM
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Can a boy and girl be just friends?
Ok guys this is something serious i want to discuss with you, i need some advice from you guys on this, so there is this girl Celine who i have been friends with since 2nd grade and she has been my best friend ever since, without her my life would have been a mess, whenever i needed a true friend she was always there for me, there is nothing i would hesitate to talk to her about and its the same with her, now 2 weeks ago she told me she was moving out of her parent's house this May and moving in with her boyfriend who she has been dating for the last 8 months, now when she told me this, i was happy for her and everything, but slowly i realised that she is going away and the magnitude of the whole situation hit me, now i don't know how to explain this but since then i feel pretty agitated, after this incident she called me few times but i didn't answer her calls and when she came to my place to check whether i was alright i just told her to leave me alone (in a rude manner, which i so badly regret now), i have never felt this way for anyone and i don't know what to do, is this love or something else??I just don't have enough courage to go up-to her and tell her what i feel about her, i am discussing this with you guys because, i can't talk about this with my friends here, as both myself and Celine mostly have common friends, so i can't take the risk of somebody from them going and telling her about all this, so guys do you any suggestions as to what i should about this, because in the last few days i have realised that my life probably would never be good without her.
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20-03-2008, 05:54 AM
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Sounds to me like you're in to her. Wouldn't tell her that though if you want to remain friends, given that she already has a boyfriend
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20-03-2008, 06:02 AM
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20-03-2008, 06:06 AM
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20-03-2008, 06:12 AM
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20-03-2008, 06:17 AM
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Just tell her how you feel. It's better than cutting yourself up wondering about it for ****ing ages and then losing the opportunity completely. Either be happy or unhappy, never be in the middle. You're meant to feel, not be detached.
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20-03-2008, 06:18 AM
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Sorry, but it sounds like your way too late and if you tell her things might get a little awkward, especially when she has a long term boyfriend
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20-03-2008, 06:31 AM
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She's been dating someone for 8 months, and you're only realising your need for her now that she's moving in with another guy(and presumably away from you?). I say, if you were in love with her, you'd have felt as you do now 8 months back itself. You might just be panicking at losing a best friend. Heck, I know the feeling, sort of. My best friend is a guy, and I felt like I lost him when he got married last year. And no, I'm not gay. Just because you feel the same pangs of seperation for a girl instead of a guy doesnt mean you have the hots for her. It could just be sadness at losing a good friend you could confide in.
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Yes, of course you can.
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