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    Having a bit of a dilemma.. Need your opinions.

    Okay so, I've been officially dating this guy since Feb 6th but have been seeing him for a while before that. He lives in Droitwich Spa, near Worcester which is about 40-50 miles away from where I live. It started out that he would make the journey to Wolverhampton or Birmingham so that we could see either other but after a while that got boring. So I made the decision that I would travel to Droitwich so that we could just chill out (no naughty smilies please lol). It means that it takes me 30 minutes by tram to Birmingham Snow Hill followed by a 50 minutes train journey to Droitwich Spa. I have no problem doing it as I love being with his family and friends. But the journey costs me 8 one way or 10 return and as I'm not working it does cost a lot. There have been times when I have had to borrow money from Ben so that I can get home or have had to charge his mom the money for me to get home when I've cut her hair (she wouldn't let me say no). My mom said that I have been lowering myself by borrowing money from him and that I don't have any pride in myself for doing so. My relationship with my boyfriend had caused a heck of a lot of tension and led to a lot of arguments between myself and everyone in my family. My family hasn't met him yet simply because I don't want them to be the way they are with me with him. My family are saying that all of this has been caused by Ben, which isn't the case and I'm afraid that Ben thinks that is the case too. The real reason this is happening is because I've been trying to get my own independence and life for a few years and I'm finally taking it. I can really see this turning out to be a real mess with either me moving out or being thrown out.

    Just need your opinions or advice on what to do..
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    Why can't he just take the train to meet you?
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    There's no where for us to go if he was to come here other than walking around town all day.


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    Quote Originally Posted by andyc View Post
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    Was talking about you, tbh.

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    And surely you can find more exciting stuff to do than just walk around all day?
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    Quote Originally Posted by roseboy64 View Post
    And surely you can find more exciting stuff to do than just walk around all day?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Piper View Post
    My mom said that I have been lowering myself by borrowing money from him and that I don't have any pride in myself for doing so.

    Haha, tell your mum to **** off. Right bad attitude there. Lowering yourself by borrowing money indeed, who is she, the ****ing Queen?

    But seriously, learn to drive, would solve the problem. Thats a message for all bloody women. Trust me, its a pain in the arse having a woman who lives 10 miles away who cant drive, doubly so when you can, and thus become a glorified taxi.


    Seriously though, dont take any attitude because your doing what you want with your life, balls to that.
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    Listen to your heart. Do what it says. And then be happy because you followed your heart. Do not let a disappointment (I hope you dont have one) EVER make you doubt that you still did the right thing by listening to your heart and that you would have been better off listening to others.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SJS View Post
    Listen to your heart.
    Listen to your heart, baby we should be apart, baby I just can't do it, I - I just can't do it, I wanna break down and cry... Oooo oooo ooo ooo, can you hear me burnin'? It's been so many days, so many hours, till you returnnnn, when the feelin ain't the same in your body don't want to, but gotta' let it go, cuz the party ain't jumpin' like it use to, baby girl this might bruise you, you gotta' let it burn, you gotta' let it burn...

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    Quote Originally Posted by SJS View Post
    Listen to your heart.
    Listen to your heart, when he's calling for you. Listen to your heart, there's nothing else you can do. I don't know where you're going, and I don't know why. But listen to your heart, before you tell him goodbye

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    Quote Originally Posted by Piper View Post
    I can really see this turning out to be a real mess with either me moving out or being thrown out.
    Anyway... jeys, I'm worried about you now. Give us a buzz if anything, y'know, really bad happens.

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    Is there a reason why you are not working?

    Obviously I dont know your situation, but working would solve virtually all your problems. Everything from financial issues to increased independance
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    IIRC, she has been looking for a job for quite some time now.
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