The reason they "showed" that was because they were better, quite simply. Hard to be ruthless or look driven when you're being steamrollered.
I assume you didn't enjoy SA's cricket over the last three days of the series, either, given that it was textbook ruthless cricket.
I enjoyed watching it in for what it was -Good Cricket-, but yea, I woudn't say that any of the South Africa lineup are in my list of favourite players excluding Amla.
Although the Guard of Honour to Ponting was brilliant to see. Great spirit.
Players who I like/liked watching...Warne, Cairns, Sehwag, Flintoff (especially during the '05 Ashes at the end with Lee), Murali, Inzamam, Afridi (although he can be a **** at times), Laxman, Panesar, almost all minnow teams and players.
Guys like Kumble and Dravid were two who tried really hard to win, who were desperate to win, but very rarely let themselves get overwhelmed by emotion on the field in the course of it. That's good too.
There is a reason I support BD. For all the thrashings they get, they always seem to enjoy their cricket when playing. They enjoy their time out their on the field. That has changed recently though, guys like Shakib and Mushfiqur and Tamim are harder, more competitive. They show their disappointment after a loss, get visibly upset on the field, get angry.
It's easier said than done but...relax. It's just a game afterall.
@bechmark - like I said, I can't read their minds. But watching them play would suggest, to me anyways, that they weren't enjoying just being out their on the park playing cricket. They wanted to win. They weren't just happy playing, they were happy when they were winning.